Thursday, May 31, 2012

Interview with Laura Kurk ~ Author of "Glass Girl"

Laura Kurk is the fabulous author of Glass Girl, one of my very favorite contemporary YA Christian fiction novels. She lives in Texas with her husband and kids, and has been a writer since finishing a graduate degree in English. Today she'll be talking about some of the issues that her books deals with, her writing process, as well as an insider on her next project.


Glass Girl deals with issues that many teens are faced with today. How did you go about presenting these topics in a clean yet authentic way in order to connect with your readers and represent God's truth?

Great question because it really is a balancing act—being authentic and being appropriate. And the center of balance changes rapidly, so if you want to be authentic so you’ll be heard, you have to stay sharp as a writer. Although I write contemporary realism, I never want to bring up issues just to be salacious or shocking. And this isn’t an issue-driven book, anyway. It’s a book about healing, finding strength, moving on, accepting grace.

My goal, from the start, was to present a reality that kids are faced with every day, and to show how my main character takes in information and then makes decisions. I think, Henry and Meg both are examples of teens who are living beyond the superficiality of selfish desires--Meg, because her life was interrupted by grief, and Henry, because his family had established a relationship with Christ which was life changing and heartfelt.

Maybe the bigger question is why are you writing YA at this moment in time?

Here’s what it is for me. More than ever, this generation struggles with temptations that are convenient and within reach; and, in fact, are able to be easily hidden. This cultural shift is happening around us so quickly that I don’t think we’ve even begun to understand what the outcomes will be for society. There is energy, life, movement, and excitement in this changing landscape for teens and that’s interesting to me.

But what I know, more than anything, is that there are teens out there who are trying to do the right thing, whose hearts are tender and touched, and who are suffering for their convictions or for mistakes they’ve made. Here, guys, is a book that says—“I know, I get it, I see you and I see what you’re trying to do. I recognize how difficult it is. Here are a couple of characters to whom I think you’ll relate.”

I worry about YA books that pretend certain problems aren’t real or epidemic only because they’re uncomfortable to discuss. The vast majority of teens are not looking for preachy or Pollyanna fiction. They’re looking for themselves in books. So, for instance, in Glass Girl, you see a scene where Meg, the main character, finds herself at a party where underage drinking and more are taking place. Meg, though, knows herself well, and she knows, not only does she not have to participate, she is respected for her morals.

Henry, the rancher’s son who falls hard for Meg, recognizes her strength of character because he has the same moral convictions. He’s a typical teenage guy in most ways, except a strong moral compass guides him. He made the decision long ago to remain pure and in control, and it’s not a question for him. While he’s well aware that the kids around him aren’t waiting, he never wavers.

Did you write Glass Girl with a certain type of reader in mind?

I’m one of those writers who visualizes her audience, so yes, I had a pretty clear picture of my reader from the very start.

First, I wrote it for all the teens out there who are seeking a better way. Maybe they’ve made some choices that have started them down a road they never intended to travel, or maybe they’ve been battered by circumstances out of their control that have left them wondering if there’s more to life. I wrote it for the girls I know personally who are honorable, intelligent, exquisitely compassionate and moral, but who haven’t necessarily embraced a meaningful relationship with Christ.

Second, I wrote for the girls who have pursued faith passionately and already know what it means to have a moment of grace like Meg had. These are girls who love others with open and compassionate hearts who may have a faith like Henry’s but they have friends who are brand new to the idea, like Meg. These are girls who put themselves into the world to be the essence of Christ. They’re no dummies, they know there’s another side. They know their friends are behaving in questionable ways and ending up broken. But they are seeking ways to connect with the people in our world who are dying for grace.

How did you come up with the character of your protagonist Meg?

You know, you’ll roll your eyes when you hear this. I dreamed her. We hear so many authors say this that it has become cliché. Meyer said she dreamed Bella, for instance. But truly, this is what happened.

I’d had a stressful week and often when we’re stressed, our dreams become incredibly vivid. So one night, I dreamed I was in an unfamiliar two-story house. I could hear a girl crying and I worried that it was my own daughter. I started looking for her in every room and I finally opened a bedroom door upstairs and found a girl I didn’t know sitting at a window crying. I tried to talk to her. I tried to help her. She didn’t want to have anything to do with me, though. I woke up disturbed. I started teasing the threads of the dream, trying to figure out what would make a girl that distraught. For me, as a teen, it would have been losing my brother. The story started writing itself in my head. I created Henry as a shelter for Meg. And, really, the first thing that made it into my laptop was the letter Henry writes to Meg from Nicaragua. That letter became the ending to the book.

What inspired you to write a YA Christian fiction novel?

I actually never said to myself, “This will be Christian fiction.” But faith is such an integral part of everything I do, say, think, believe, and write and it just colored this book. It became both the conflict and the resolution (like it is so often in life) and I realized that it’s difficult to be a writer who is also a Christian and not write stories of faith.

That’s a question I’m asked a lot—what does it mean to be a writer who is also a Christian? I think that faith will always play a role in my stories, even if I don’t always write overtly Christian fiction. I believe that Christian writers are deeply concerned about people. We simply love people. And we are, at our core, affirmers of life and of hope. We write stories that say “yes” to life and “yes” to hope because we are hopeful.

We understand that circumstances can be impossible to survive and yet we survive because we have the power of the One who created the original story within us. Listen, life can get so messy and so heartbreaking. We aren’t protected from heartbreak as Christians. But we understand it. We see the larger work being done within us and around us. It makes our writing tender and emotional and full of soul. I have a reader who said to me this week, “Your characters speak ‘soul.’” That’s what it is. It’s its own dialect. It’s ‘soul.’”

Can you tell me a bit about the process of writing Glass Girl?

I’ve been a professional editor and writer for most of my career, but I was writing for others. Writing for companies or universities. And I began to wonder why my words felt disposable. After I’d been home with my two little ones for a while, learning and growing and having my heart stretched, I realized I needed to write like I needed to breathe. And I had this story, Meg’s story, ready to come out. I sat down to write one day after my kids went to school, and about six weeks later, I looked up and had the book written. Now all good writers know books are not written, they are rewritten. That first draft went through a lot of scrubbing and sharpening and tightening before it was ready to see the light of day.

It was written mostly during the day while my kids were in school, but also in the middle of the night when I’d toss and turn because a new chapter needed work. It’s a bit like any art—the inspiration comes once you take that first step and it’s messy and terrifying and exhilarating. I love to create stories. It’s a thrill and a catharsis.


Your novel deals with elements such as grief, forgiveness, bullying, etc. While writing, did God bring to your attention something you had to be healed from as well?

What an amazing question. Would you believe I’ve never thought about that? Here I am, thinking about it now. The answer is so personal but, yes, I believe that God healed me through this book. Meg’s story of grief and forgiveness intersect with my own life in many subtle ways and I think I gained exquisite perspective about accepting grace and letting go.

When did you first decide you wanted to be an author?

I think, like most writers, it was early on. I wrote as a child and lived in fear that my brother would find my pages and laugh at me. I devised a plan to hide things I’d written under rocks in the creek on our property. I think that was my first experience with releasing my words to the world. I trusted that I could give them away and be okay. Of course, I got a couple of degrees in literature and studied the craft of writing and wrote professionally for others. Finally, though, I turned back to my first love—fiction.

Are you working on anything at the moment, and would you mind telling us a little bit about that?

I just this week gave the sequel to Glass Girl to my agent. It’s called Perfect Glass, and it tore my heart out and stomped on it. It continues the relationship between Henry and Meg, only it introduces the antagonistic effect of long-distance. Henry has accepted a role in a foreign orphanage for a year and Meg is back home finishing her last year of high school and trying to feel like a normal senior. It’s told from a dual point-of-view, so readers will get to live in both Meg’s and Henry’s minds. The book tells the heartbreaking true story of what happened to private orphanages in Nicaragua at the hands of the government. And it shows how Meg grows as a new Christian.

I blog at Writing for Young Adults (laurakurk.com) where I talk about the issues on the hearts and minds of teens. I also write a monthly column for Nicole O’Dell’s Choose Now Ministries (nicoleodell.com). My column is called Laura Kurk On Hollywood and each month I highlight a celebrity who is doing something right, something worthy. I also write for KatharosNow, (katharosnow.com) a popular webzine for teens and I guest blog and write YA related articles as often as possible. I’d love for your readers to find me on Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/writerlaurakurk) and twitter (http://twitter.com/LauraKurk) and get in touch with me to say hello!

A third, stand-alone novel is underway and I’m excited about that one.

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Thanks so much for interviewing with us!
Click here to order Glass Girl on Amazon.

Friday, May 25, 2012

When You're Not Sure Which Path To Take

I've always lacked decision-making skills. Even small decisions. When I was younger and would go to the ice cream store with my family, I would see the triple-chocolate-chunk ice cream my sister ordered and suddenly my moose track ice cream didn't taste so good anymore. Unfortunately, I've never grown out of this indecisiveness. Making decisions just isn't one of my fortes, especially when it comes to big, life-altering ones. And when you're 18 and a new chapter is beginning in your life, this could be a problem.

But there is good news. I don't have to trust my decision-making skills. Because it's not up to me to decide which path take. Instead, I can have complete confidence that my Father knows and will get me there. So when I see multiple completely different roads ahead of me and I'm not sure which one I'm supposed to take, all I have to do is remind myself the scripture 1 Thessalonians 5:24 which states that "He who calls you is faithful, who also will do it." He is faithful. He will not leave me at the steering wheel of my life by myself. No, I may not know where my destination is. But He does. And He promises to show me, step by step, which direction I am supposed to take. It's almost like having a GPS in the car with you... only his batteries will never die. And he's not going to lead me down a road that's completely different from where I'm supposed to be going.

So if you're currently struggling like I am trying to figure out where you're supposed to go next, remember that God will show you. He will open the doors that need to be open and close the doors that need to be closed. Continue putting your trust in him, knowing that He knows what's best for you and will not lead you down a path that's not part of the journey that he has in store for you.

This brings such a relief, knowing that when it comes to life-changing choices, I don't have to trust my own decision-making skills. Because ultimately, it's not up to me. It's up to Him. Only He knows where I'm going, and He's the only one who can get me there.

Romans 4:21~

"...and being fully convinced that what He had promised He was also able to perform."

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Have you ever had to make a huge decision in your life?
How did God show you which path you were supposed to take?

Friday, May 11, 2012

Writer's Inspiration




"Some of the hardest writing I've had to do
has taken me back to things I didn't want to relive
But God can take the worst in your life
and use it to his good purposes."
~Francine Rivers




"God is... helping them to see beyond the shallow caricature of Christianity
to a real God who loves them and will use any means possible
to break through their intellectual defenses 
and help them understand the love of Christ.
Often he uses friends or sermons or circumstances.
But sometimes he uses stories."
~Randy Singer



"One other practice I've begun through my writing life includes prayer.
I often read poems, reread favorite prayers, find solace in the Psalms, 
and quiet my heart before I begin writing 
so that I can truly enter and live my story. 
I want desperately to put aside the 'me' of the writing 
and allow God to speak through me 
those words he wishes other to receive."
~Jane Kirkpatrick



"For a writer, words are like daubs of color 
on a painter's palette or notes on a musician's staff.
The right words, strung together in just the right order,
become powerful tools in the hands of a skilled artist."
~Deborah Raney



"Herein lies the most important truth of all:
what you accomplish as a writer is between you and God. 
If we don't care for the tools he's given us, 
we can't expect to follow his calling. 
If we are faithful in all aspects of the calling, 
then he will take care of what follows."
~Janelle Clare Schneider


Wednesday, May 9, 2012

When Bad Things Happen To Good People

There's a new video that's been circulating around the internet recently that has completely touched my heart. It's the story of Ian and Larissa. How God can turn a tragic and sudden disability into a story that magnifies his love. I encourage you to watch the video below:

The Story of Ian and Larissa





There has been many situations to take place in my life (though definitely not anything as tragic as this story) that has left me filled with questions. I'm sure many of you have felt the same way also. A grandparent passes away. Your boyfriend breaks up with you. Your dad loses his job.

And it's left you devastated. You don't understand why it had to happen, how it could possibly be God's best for you. Because even though God is the author of life, we sometimes like to think that we could write the story better if the pen was in our hands instead.

For example, something tragic - like your boyfriend being involved in an accident that will affect his future forever - is definitely not something any of us have in mind when we think of our future. Isn't God supposed to bless his children? Because he loves us and wants us to always be happy?

Those are big lies that the enemy places in our minds so that once something does happen, we tend to think negatively about God. First of all, our circumstances should never define our happiness. And what we go through does not reflect God's love - or lack of - love for us.

But we still don't understand. Something like this happens to us and we're filled with questions, filled with doubt. Our trust in God diminishes as it's replaced with anger, frustration and pain.

One thing that's inspired me with this story of Ian and Larissa is Larissa's attitude. Of course, I'm sure she's gone through times when she just can't understand how this could possibly be what God had planned for her and Ian. Times when she just wishes things were the way they were before the accident. But she knows that she can't allow herself to continue asking those questions. Notice how she didn't let what happened to hold her back from marrying the man she loved or cause herself to remain drowned in self-pity. Because she knew that ultimately, there wasn't anything she could do to go back in time and change what's happened. So she made the decision, despite the confusion and pain, to trust that God has a purpose for this.

I love the wall of thankfulness they have displayed in their house. It reflects exactly the way our attitude should be when during a trial: full of thankfulness. Larissa could focus on the fact that Ian will never get back to the way he was, but instead she is always looking at things to be thankful for. This should set an example for everyone. No matter how devastating something is, there will always be a reason to be thankful. And if we set our mind on that, our attitude will completely change. And we become much, much happier.

On Larissa and Ian's blog Pray For Ian, Romans 8:28 is mentioned several times:

"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."

This is a great scripture to remember while going through a trial. Don't forget all the prayers that God has answered. No matter how bad a situation is, it could always be worse. And know that He is faithful to bring this to competition. The story isn't over yet.

In the end, we'll learn that every test and every season that took place in our lives was all part of the story that God had in mind for us from the very beginning. Right now, we don't know why things may be happening to us. But we can remember that God never said this life would be perfect. He did say, however, that he would be with us through it all and never forsake us. We can learn through the hard times how to grow stronger in Him. Eventually, we'll understand. Eventually, we'll see how everything in our lives came down to one thing: to glorify God. And that's the only thing that matters.

I love what Ian said on their blog yesterday:

"I would do this (disability) all over again if I knew it would affect this many people. God is glorious."

This also reminds me of Bethany Hamilton's story. A tragic accident that could've taken a thirteen-year-olds life affected her future forever. After her arm was bitten off by a shark, Bethany could've lived the rest of her life in self-pity. But instead, she got back up and didn't allow what happened to her to hold her back from her dreams. Sure, she also had times when she was probably wondering why this had to happen to her, wishing that it didn't. But she knew that through it all, she was growing closer to God. And through it all, her story has also affected many people. Now both Ian and Bethany Hamilton have said that they wouldn't change what's happened to them. Why? Because they understand the main purpose behind what happened to them. To touch lives. To give God glory.

So back to the question: why do bad things happen to good people?


We aren't going to know all the answers right now, but we can remember this: there is a reason. It's about your perspective, whether or not you're willing to learn what God's trying to teach you through the trial and continue on with your life, or allow it to hold you back and cause yourself to be angry at God - drawing you farther away from him. And in turn causing your life to be even more miserable.

Keep your eyes focused on the positive. Make a wall of thankfulness if you have to. Focus and trust in Him, reminding yourself that God is with you and he promises to never let go of your hand. No matter what your temporary struggles may look like.
"You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives."
~Genesis 50:20 

"I know the plans I have for you,' says the Lord. Plans to prosper and not to harm you. Plans to give you a hope and a future."
~Jeremiah 29:11

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Currently...

Hi everyone! I apologize for the lack of posts recently. These last few weeks of school has been crazy. I will start up again on Monday posting Inspiration Monday's. If any of you would like to write a guest post to fill in these empty spots, send me an email.

Currently Reading...

  • Mockingjay by Suzanne Collins





  • Leaving by Karen Kingsbury
  • Scarlet Thread by Francine Rivers


Currently Watching...





Currently Working On...

  • Brainstorming my next book
  • The cover of Purple Moon
  • Finishing high school!


Currently Listening To...


  • Jimmy Needham's new album Clear The Stage
  • Miranda Lambert's new album Four The Record


Currently Looking Forward To...


  • Graduation
  • Summer
  • My mission trip in June
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What is it that you're currently reading, listening to, 
watching, working on, etc.?